I don’t know if I would say that I’ve ever had a particularly varied wardrobe. I’ve gone through several phases of style throughout my life, but during those phases, I feel like I’ve mostly worn whatever style of clothing I favored at the time.
Right now, I’m really favoring sweaters and leggings, which I’ve talked about in a previous post. It feels like a really comfortable uniform for my life at the moment. And who wants to be uncomfortable all day? Not me.
Another thing I’ve noticed about my wardrobe recently is that it’s gotten very monochromatic. I’ve always been a fan of the color black, at least since my goth/alternative phase in middle and high school. But even beyond the goth associations, I just feel like it’s the easiest and most flattering color to wear. I never feel uncomfortable when I’m wearing black. It also goes with pretty much every other color. I have a few items of clothing that have color, but mostly I wear a lot of black (also a fair amount of gray). This is really helpful when I’m deciding what to wear, because almost everything goes together. I rarely have to worry about my colors clashing anymore, since I have so few to begin with. It makes it so much easier to pick out clothes in the morning.
There are so many more important things to worry about in the day than what to wear. Don’t you think?
I came late to the cult of leggings. For the longest time, I was one of those people who swore that leggings were not pants, and should not be worn as such. I might wear a pair of leggings with a skirt or dress, but never on their own. I was just never comfortable with the idea of all of my business being on display through thin, tight fabric.
But I still like to be comfortable. I don’t like a lot of pants and jeans because they’re tight and uncomfortable and unforgiving. So for the longest time, I wore a lot of skirts, dresses, tights, and stretchy jeans, because they were the most comfortable things I could find. They were also more in line with the way that I like to dress, which is reasonably modest. I’ve never been one to show a lot of skin, and tend to favor looser clothes.
Somehow though, I started to see the upside of leggings. I don’t have to dress very professionally on a daily basis, since I work in a public library. And they go great with a long sweater, which I’m a fan of. I still don’t wear them so that my business is on display, because that makes me uncomfortable. But as long as my butt is covered, I’m definitely on board with leggings. Really, there’s no reason not to be comfortable, and they look good too.
What do you think? Are you a fan of leggings or should they be for exercise only? Let me know in the comments.
I think this is something that most people do throughout their lives, since different parts of our lives require different clothing and wardrobes. For myself personally, I know that I’ve changed my style several times throughout my life. I had the obligatory style changes throughout my adolescence, where I was intermittently trying to dress like everyone else and trying to find my own style. It made for some interesting outfits in pictures of me throughout my childhood.
Around late high school and college, I settled into the style I’ve had since then, which includes a lot of sweaters, skinny jeans, skirts, dresses, and tights. It’s hard to describe in a sentence, but think librarian (and this was before I even started working in a library!) meets hipster on tumblr. In college especially, I dabbled in high heels, but those were never for me.
More recently, I feel like I’ve been leaning much more casually, mostly because libraries are usually pretty casual places to work. So sometimes I just feel weird wearing dresses and high heels when no one else does. Not that it would stop me if I really wanted to, but lately I just haven’t wanted to.
My most recent clothing purchases have confirmed my commitment to a more casual style. I’ve bought a lot of leggings and loose, comfy sweaters. Maybe it’s not a huge change, but it definitely feels like a shift for someone who used to wear more skirts than pants. During this process, I’ve also gotten rid of a lot of old clothes that I never wear. So I guess there’s no going back now.
Have you ever had this kind of shift in style as an adult? What made you want to do it? Let me know in the comments.